When you think of roller derby, safe is probably the furthest word from your mind. Between the jams, blocks, and hip checks, the physical athleticism required definitely deems it a rough-and-tumble sport. Surprisingly enough, however, Houston Roller Derby (HRD) has not only created a safe space for its members, but a welcoming community for skaters, volunteers, and fans alike. I had the pleasure of catching up with retired Bayou City Bosses skater and blocker Suzie Sheldon, aka Pseudonym, to discuss…
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Asking for a Friend: Queer PDA, How Much is Too Much?
Posted on May 14, 2018Queer PDA: How Much is Too Much? Dr. Laura McGuire talks public canoodling and more in this month's Asking for a Friend!…
On Being in Your Body: Queer Self-Love as a Radical Act
Posted on May 9, 2018I first heard about On Being in Your Body (OBIYB) while I was working with a client of mine who identifies as a gender non-conforming queer. We were talking about our positive experiences and connections via Instagram and she couldn’t stop singing the praises of this project to help womxn, queer, and non-binary humans to reclaim their bodies through art, writing, and human connection.…
Queer Fitness Instructor Bethany C. Meyers on Finding Yourself, Personally and Professionally
Posted on May 8, 2018Downstairs from street level, I sit in a quaint Manhattan coffee shop, nestled in the bustling hubbub of the Flatiron District. I recognize Bethany C. Meyers’ energy the moment they walk in, despite the heavy coat enveloping their petite frame, the bulky headphones, and celebrity sunglasses.…
Talk Derby to Me: Meet Psych Ward Sirens Skater Paula Cream-Her
Posted on April 20, 2018For Amanda Carmona, aka Paula Cream-Her #4, finding roller derby was like finding the missing piece to the puzzle of life. Initially drawn in by the sport’s strong female leadership, Cream-Her stayed for its inclusive atmosphere, celebration of uniqueness, and team spirit. Spectrum South had the pleasure of chatting with Cream-Her about her journey of discovering her identity and roller derby, her love for Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and her rookie season with the Houston Roller Derby’s Psych Ward Sirens.…
Top Four Queer Swimming Holes in the South
Posted on April 18, 2018As summer closes in, I’m struck by the overwhelming desire for a queer swimming experience, a place where we can all gather and connect with the water in a joyful way that simultaneously quenches the heat and the need for community. But I hesitated. Do places like that exist in the South?…
Gently Healing from Within: Dr. Laura McGuire Hosts Houston Trauma Recovery Workshop
Posted on April 9, 2018April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, a time when survivors and their allies come together to be seen, heard, and create change for the future. We talk a lot about prevention and crisis, which are both vital parts of the conversation, but rarely do we discuss long-term recovery. Sexual violence isn’t the kind of emotional or physical wound that heals easily. The pain and injury is deep and, even after the trauma has become a distant memory, it is a…
Asking for a Friend: Has the #MeToo Movement Gone Too Far?
Posted on April 6, 2018Welcome back to Asking for a Friend, our monthly queer love and sex vlog! In this episode, host Dr. Laura McGuire tackles the question: Has the #MeToo Movement gone too far?…
Cooking as Self-Care: How I Found a Creative Escape from My Creative Career
Posted on March 24, 2018“When you do what you love, you’ll never have to work a day in your life.” This well-known saying may have some truth behind it, but it’s often terribly misinterpreted. Just because you love what you do doesn’t mean it isn’t work. At times, your dream job will be exhausting, difficult, and you will want to escape from it, even if just for a little while. When we turn our passion into a career, what we want to do, over…
Rebel Mariposa Creates Vegan Tex-Mex Eats and Queer-Inclusive Nightlife at La Botánica
Posted on March 21, 2018La Botánica, a vegan eatery and bar, is defying norms in the San Antonio restaurant scene. In a city that loves queso-filled Tex-Mex food and in a state that boasts damn good barbecue, La Botánica offers an alternative option with Mexican-inspired, plant-based food created by queer chef and co-owner, Rebel Mariposa.…